FB: Liberty League

[Senor RedTackle]

well done rev good to see you got yourself back in the game again....pbr would weigh 350 if mpbr ever worked at panda's express....RT take note the rev is back in the game time for you to jettison cargo and do the same

RT is in his person reflection room this summer trying to decide what to do with his domestic situation. RT is not good at break ups but RT really needs to position himself for the good talent that is about to descend upon Saratoga for the start of the race season. FFMRT is worken to tighten her jedi mind grip with all sorts of shopping trips to acquire items for the house. This has RT feeling guilty. RT is not in his comfort zone at the moment and, subsequently, has been ornery this summer..........

[PBR...]

RT...You do or do not, there is no try.

[JT]

TDT played on a softball team for a coupla summers known as "The Future Breed Machines"...

you have issues....  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQBv1smlQEU

JT can't believe some people consider this music.  JT likes just about every type except opera and classical.  Bunch of doods just screaming into a mic. Looks like speed metal.

[bman]

RT

Bman had refrained from commenting on your dilemma, because frankly, unless someone has all of the details, their opinion is always going to be somewhat biased toward their own experience and not yours.

After listening to your comments over the last month, however, Bman does have one comment.

You seem on the fence to continue the relationship...as does FMRT.  Your living arrangement was predicated on that relationship going to the next level...

Getting married does not solve fundamental relationship problems.  In many cases(of course not all) it makes them worse.  The legal joining of money, assets, and property, will make things way worse, if the marriage fails. And then makes the process of separation/divorce messy.

Generally after the honeymoon period (6 months to a year) is over, all of the fundamental issues you may have as a couple will come back with a vengence.

Unless you get your (relationship) house in order on both sides, you will be destined to be a statistic and join the ranks of the divorced.

So Bman poses this question to you....regardless of the nice things she brings home(on credit card?), are you willing to spend the rest of your life dealing with the head games you have been describing here?  If the answer is no, then do not assume that they will get better with a more formal commitment...they will not.

If the answer is no, then IMHO, you should do what's best for both of you and part company.

(Bman gets off his soapbox)

[Senor RedTackle]

RT

Bman had refrained from commenting on your dilemma, because frankly, unless someone has all of the details, their opinion is always going to be somewhat biased toward their own experience and not yours.

After listening to your comments over the last month, however, Bman does have one comment.

You seem on the fence to continue the relationship...as does FMRT.  Your living arrangement was predicated on that relationship going to the next level...

Getting married does not solve fundamental relationship problems.  In many cases(of course not all) it makes them worse.  The legal joining of money, assets, and property, will make things way worse, if the marriage fails. And then makes the process of separation/divorce messy.

Generally after the honeymoon period (6 months to a year) is over, all of the fundamental issues you may have as a couple will come back with a vengence.

Unless you get your (relationship) house in order on both sides, you will be destined to be a statistic and join the ranks of the divorced.

So Bman poses this question to you....regardless of the nice things she brings home(on credit card?), are you willing to spend the rest of your life dealing with the head games you have been describing here?  If the answer is no, then do not assume that they will get better with a more formal commitment...they will not.

If the answer is no, then IMHO, you should do what's best for both of you and part company.

(Bman gets off his soapbox)

timely advice. This is why RT turns to the LL help forum....

[JT]

Lindsay Lohan popped for DUI... I guess that bracelet doesn't actually prevent her from putting the glass to her mouth.

http://www.tmz.com/

[PBR...]

Lindsay Lohan popped for DUI... I guess that bracelet doesn't actually prevent her from putting the glass to her mouth.

http://www.tmz.com/

and now also for "white lines.." possession as well...blew a .13 then on a subsequent search at the police station they found blow on her as well...good to see her rehab worked. take a look at that mug shot of her she is destined for crack and living under a bridge somewhere shortly.

[JT]

Runway model falls (twice), newsmen laugh. The second fall is the best, because she tried so hard to stay upright. SFW

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oEbCASUD3no

[Jonny Utah]

RT:

Bottom line is that this girl has to go.  And you can consider it a blessing that you guys lived together in order to figure out that you cant do this.

The only other option is to really just sit down and do the "we have to talk" thing and ask where the releationship is going.  If she says she is not ready to commit, then tell her that it might be better to be apart for a while to see how things work out that way.  Tell her that you simply arent happy and that you are happier with your friends.  Thats just how you feel. That way its not a complete breakup, but it is for you in terms of getting that Chick from Everett. 

I went out for a girl for a few years once and didnt break up with her because I felt bad and knew that she would get very upset and it would be a huge deal.  And I waited too long and it just got worse.  Then I just ended up wasting her time.  So I used the old "its not you, its me" for real but I ended up just looking like a jerk.

[Knightstalker]

Too funny, and the woman tried to defend the model and ended up cracking up too.

['gro]

Solution for RT

Have a sit down with the lady. Put 3 toy boats on the table. Tell her one is a friendSHIP, one is a relationSHIP, and the other is the USS Sexy Time.  All three are heading out to sea which one does she want to be on.

Also, it helps to have this conversation dressed like a ship captain or pirate.

[PBR...]

Solution for RT

Have a sit down with the lady. Put 3 toy boats on the table. Tell her one is a friendSHIP, one is a relationSHIP, and the other is the USS Sexy Time.  All three are heading out to sea which one does she want to be on.

Also, it helps to have this conversation dressed like a ship captain or pirate.

BOL!!!  +k!! 

[PBR...]

L.L. heading down wrong way street ....check out this mug shot...

[Regulator]

Solution for RT

Have a sit down with the lady. Put 3 toy boats on the table. Tell her one is a friendSHIP, one is a relationSHIP, and the other is the USS Sexy Time.  All three are heading out to sea which one does she want to be on.

Also, it helps to have this conversation dressed like a ship captain or pirate.

Is Reg also allowed to use the boat name USS Sexy Time?  Is that even legal?

[Knightstalker]

You might have to name it SS sexy time.  That or get the navy to buy the boat and then it could be USS.